I have been reading an article entitled 'Nice People' written by Bertrand Russell and which was first published in 1931. In the article Bertrand says, "To be a nice person, it is necessary to be protected from crude contact with reality, and those who do the protecting cannot be expected to share the niceness that they preserve."
“The chief characteristic of nice people is the laudable practice of improvement upon reality. God made the world, but nice people feel that they could have done the job better.”
“The chief characteristic of nice people is the laudable practice of improvement upon reality. God made the world, but nice people feel that they could have done the job better.”
“In general, nice people leave the
policing of the world to hirelings because they feel the work to be not such as
a person who is quite nice would wish to undertake.”
Bertrand's observations
seem to suggest that the definition of a nice person could be that of a person whose
perception of reality has been hijacked or distorted by another (and usually by
one whose virtues would not fall under the category of nice).
A question
that would undoubtedly be beneficial for all new parents or guardians to ask of
themselves would be, ‘is it a blessing or the seeds of a
nightmare that I am bestowing, as I set out to define and to further shape an
infant’s first impressions of the world?’ To an extent that an infant is
willing to trust and to bend to the authority of another, is an infant’s
ability to discern a truth of reality from fabrication impaired in that
instant.
One of
the inevitable consequences of the creation of a nice person is
that such a person is blinkered to and unable to engage fully in life, as to do so
would challenge the foundations on which their perception of themselves
and of the world has been based.
It is likely to prove a struggle for them to assume full responsibility for their choices and consequences of their actions; there will effectively be a disconnect between their emotional centre and reason - logic will seem to make sense and it undoubtedly will, from the confines of reality from which it has emerged. Not only can this be a tragedy for the experience of life of a nice person but for all those whose lives they touch as well.
It is likely to prove a struggle for them to assume full responsibility for their choices and consequences of their actions; there will effectively be a disconnect between their emotional centre and reason - logic will seem to make sense and it undoubtedly will, from the confines of reality from which it has emerged. Not only can this be a tragedy for the experience of life of a nice person but for all those whose lives they touch as well.
Even on
the pretext of being a good parent or guardian and of acting in the best
interest of another, what an act of shaming does is to effectively take charge of a
person’s navigation instrument; it is through the mechanism of suggestion and
in the presence of fear that a framework is established by which a person is
consigned to live in the shadows of themselves and to be perpetually striving
for the light – and not just for themselves but for all of humanity, which in a context of morality is in dire need of restoration.
Bertrand
points to the presence of what appears to be an unwillingness to apprehend
truth and its conflation with morality and virtue when he says, “Whoever invented the phrase ‘the naked
truth’ had perceived an important connection. Nakedness is shocking to all
right-minded people, and so is truth. It matters little with what department
you are concerned; you will soon find that truth is such as nice people will
not admit into their consciousness … England has brought to perfection the
almost invisible and half-unconscious control of everything unpleasant by means
of feelings of decency.
At most times the politicians of
all parties tacitly combine to prevent anything damaging to the profession from
getting known, for difference of party usually does less to divide politicians
than identity of profession does to unite them. In this way nice people are
able to preserve their fancy picture of the nation’s great men, and school
children can be made to believe that eminence is to be achieved only by the
highest virtue.”
Bertrand points
out that what exists is not only a perversion of truth in the
name of morality, but a deliberate pursuit of and maintaining of
self-interest as well. He continues to say, “There
are, it is true, exceptional times when politics become really bitter, and at
all times there are politicians who are not considered sufficiently respectable
to belong to the informal trade union … in our own day Communists in Europe and
extreme Radicals and labour agitators in America are outside the pale; no large
body of nice people admires them, an if they offend against the conventional
code they can expect no mercy. In this way the immovable moral convictions of
nice people become linked with the defence of property, and thus once more
prove their inestimable worth.”
It is
interesting that humanity has established some form of hierarchy of
morality and truth, meaning for instance that it is possible for an appearance
of self-interest in one particular guise to be judged or deemed as being more
or less virtuous than another. The basis of the framework of morality
is one of justification.
It
doesn’t matter whether an expression of interest of an individual resides in
protecting personal wealth and power in the world or of protecting the
soul from a vision of sin and of eternal torment, what underpins any
concealment of reality or perception of truth is always an element of fear.
This type
of fear is not natural to life and can only emerge from incoherence and learned
behaviour. The mechanism of self-interest doesn’t want to see reality as it is
but as it would prefer it to be and it will go to great lengths to preserve a
status quo. As the saying goes, ‘the first casualty of war is truth’.
Bertrand gives
an example of how thinking and logic can be distorted so as to justify and
preserve a person’s perception of reality when he says, “Nice people very properly suspect pleasure whenever they see it. They
know that he that increaseth wisdom increaseth sorrow, and they infer that he
that increaseth sorrow increaseth wisdom. They therefore feel that in spreading
sorrow they are spreading wisdom; since wisdom is more precious than rubies,
they are justified in feeling that they are conferring a benefit in so doing.”
It may be true that the presence of self-interest persists and conspires to
stand in the way of reason being able to illuminate a person’s perception of
the world and of the nature of their relationships; perhaps all is not lost however, as
the capacity for intelligence and passage of life is not easily deceived or defeated or else it would be that we would not acquire wisdom.
Bertrand
finishes his article with, “The day of
nice people, I fear, is nearly over; two things are killing it. The first is
the belief that there is no harm in being happy, provided no one else is the
worse for it; the second is the dislike of humbug, a dislike which is quite as
much aesthetic as moral. Both these revolts were encouraged by the War, when
the nice people in all countries were securely in control, and in the name of
the highest morality induced the young to slaughter one another. When it was
all over the survivors began to wonder whether lies and misery inspired by
hatred constituted the highest virtue. I am afraid it may be some time before
they can again be induced to accept this fundamental doctrine of every really
lofty ethic.”
Bertrand
seems to suggest that an infiltration of reason and its ensuing gifts of wisdom manage to advance gradually into a person’s state of consciousness; that this
occurs from a combination of exposure to contending theories of reality and of
what works; and that this is a natural expression of consciousness as well as of
any evolution of who and what we are as human beings.
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